This week's quote:
I recently started a job that is definitely not my dream job and I spent the first few days mentally fighting it.
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But yesterday, I had an epiphany. I had been focusing far too much on the fact that the job wasn't perfect, and completely unwilling to find the ways it was actually a good thing. I have a cool manager, a relatively flexible work schedule, I'm learning new skills and improving my attention to detail. Not to mention, it's a paycheck, which in this day and age, is a pretty major blessing.
Even though the second part of this quote says to change your situation, change doesn't happen over night. In fact, sometimes that change only comes when you sit back and accept your current situation.
In this case, we have no choice but to love our situation and do the job to the best of our ability.
Plus, your current situation is not just your job. It's your home life, your significant other, your extracurricular activities, and other great things in your life. Letting a frustrating job overshadow all of those other things is the worst thing you can do for your spirit. It might seem obvious to some, but it has taken me a while to learn that lesson.
We are where we are for a reason. If we focus all of our energy on fighting that, we can't be open to good things that come along. Accepting a not so ideal job is the first step to happiness. Being grateful for all of the other positive things in life is the key.
I'm grateful for my wonderful boyfriend, an awesome family, yoga and dance classes, warm days in December, drinks with friends, everything funny, being an actress and writer, a healthy body, and my imagination. That's just the short list.
Imagination. Sometimes that's all you need to cope with a trying situation. Walter Middy notwithstanding.
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